Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are
a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you. While it’s
difficult to read body language at times, it’s possible if you know where to
start. Here are 10 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let you
know that they like you. Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find
your love right now.
1.)
THAT
SMILE:
A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to
flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice
that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to
approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage
by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is
nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate
a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get
is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.
2.) SHY BLUSH
Perhaps you know how it’s difficult to flirt with shy guys,
but it doesn’t mean that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that
a guy blushes around you, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying to
flirt with you. However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush
when he sees a beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t
control and if he blushes around you, he certainly likes you.
3.) EYE CONTACT
This sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying
attention to. Eye contact is important during communication and we need to use
this form of body language as often as we can. Depending on how long a man
holds an eye contact with you, you can find out whether or not he likes you. If
he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it might be
a sign he is interested in you. We all make an eye contact when flirting,
right? It’s the same for guys. If a guy holds a short eye contact, he might
also flirt with you, he is just a bit shy.
4.) MIRRORING
Sometimes men mirror woman’s actions without even knowing
it. Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with you. This ranges from
mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you are
laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, it’s natural for us to
mirror something we love. Besides, a lot of singles dating websites advise guys
to use mirroring technique when flirting with girls, maybe your crush does this
too.
5.) HANDS ON HIPS
If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs
in the belt loops, he might be interested in you. This way, he is trying to
show you he is a confident man and simply true macho. I personally don’t like
when guys use this way while flirting with girls, but still it’s one of the
signs he is flirting with you.
6.) A FLIRTING TOUCH
If your crush touches you, it’s definitely a sign he likes
you. But, when a guy touches you accidentally, this is absolutely another sign
to watch for. It means the guy is trying to get your attention and find any
excuse to continue conversation with you. Do you like that guy? If yes, flirt
back! Most girls ignore this important sign, but you shouldn’t do it. After
all, he might be your hubby!
7.) HEAD TILTS
The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes
you. If he tilts the head towards you, this means he’s listening attentively to
each word you say. This also means he’s really attuned to what you are talking
about and he’s really interested in conversation with you. I love that amazing
feeling when a man is listening to me. I always appreciate it, even if I’m not
interested in that man.
8.) DILATED PUPILS
Sometimes our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to.
When we are attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become
larger. When we don’t like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you
notice that the eyes of the guy keep dilating, it’s one of the most obvious
signs he adores you and is highly interested in you.
9.) RAISED EYEBROWS
You crush may hide his eyes when he is around you because he
likes you. He can keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes
are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while you’re talking, this is
definite sign he is flirting with you. Watch for it and you’ll surely see it!
10.) FIDGETING
Do you fidget when you are around the guy you like? I’m pretty sure you do and it’s okay. You are just nervous and it’s actually a good nervous. It’s all about expectation since you don’t know whether or not he is interested in you. If you see him fidgeting, this is because he’s interested in you and he is a bit nervous to start conversation with you.
NB:
Now that you’re aware of the signs he is flirting with you, what are you waiting for? Start flirting back and maybe you will have a nice date tonight. Do you know any other signs of flirting that I should have added to this list?
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